How do i touch him to make him feel good?

If a man has a lump in his pants, its an erection. Which is good, because it means he likes you and your turning him on. What I always like with my man when we are just cuddling, is to "spoon". Lay on your side with his chest and legs against your back, and kiss along his arms. Lots of men love girls licking and playing with their ears, so try that. Also, if you two aren't ready for sex, but perhaps you feel comfortable being nude, try giving each other body massages. If you aren't comfortable with nudity yet, just try rubbing his back and shoulders. Also massage his scalp, if he likes you playing with his hair. Those are some good things to try.