Where do i touch him to make him feel good?

Hi anonymous, my I do like the ending of your question, you don't mess about do you. Okay first of all you could always lick his nipples, you could very lightly nibble his ears. The problem is different guys like different things. Look whenever you mess with a guy, I mean in touching mode then almost inevitably you're going to get him hard, it's just the mere fact that he can feel your hands touching his body that gets him this way. I know what you mean about the lightness of touch, it's almost as though you're not actually touching the body it's just brushing the fine hair on the body. That is very erotic whether you think so or not. There are places on the body which are erogenous zones and believe me they can be in the areas that you touch. So although your intention is not to arouse him, you may still be doing just that. Look if you're guy was to run his fingers across your torso in the area that you do to him, very lightly just as you do you will get aroused. If you don't believe me ask him to do it, it has to be so light that you can barely feel it. I wish you happiness.