How to get my boyfriend to grow up?

You can't "make" him grow up, any more than you can "make" him grow wings or turn into a tree. From what you said, you should really consider advising him to seek counseling. sometimes abuse can lead to reversion to immature behavior and anxiety about new situations.

What should I do? Advice anyone?

This demonstrates why you shouldn't get drunk. It causes problem such as the one explained above. I'd say give him ONE more chance, and then let go of him if he gets drunk or does something stupid, and take away every means of him to follow you around that you can.

Will my girlfriend ever change for the better?

she probably was putting on an act before, you see her true self now. if it continues break up with her, if not maybe it was just her pmsing =]

How to control my little cousins laptop with my laptop? Please help Dx?

My little cousin dell inspiron, and she has been watching suspicious stuff, and every time I check on her computer, she has malware, spyware, viruses and all that, I ran a quick scan with malware bytes, and found 199 threats using quick scan. I want to control her computer using my computer, how do I do that? I want to monitor her activities without her knowing. Please list some programs.

How to act more preppy, but still being myself? PLEASE ANSWER, thank you.?

So, I'll be starting 7th grade in about 1 1/2 months, I'm SO excited. But, the thing is I wanna be more preppy... during my 6th grade year I was more of a jock. Since I'll be in 7th grade soon, I wanna start a new year with a new me. Any advice, please ? c:

Why does using a tampon hurt? I need to know how to make it not hurt for when I'm camping. Girls only, please!?

I've had my period for about a year now. I've always used pads and I don't go swimming much so I never really had a reason to wear a tampon. Well, I had my period recently and I was at my friend's house. She tried to help me learn how to use a tampon and had me try it because we were gonna swim in her pool but when i tried i couldn't get it in. It felt like skin or something was blocking the hole. I couldn't get it in and gave up because it felt a little weird and started hurting a bit. The reason i REALLY wanna and need to try again is because i'm going to a camp to be a counselor in training and i could possibly get my period while i'm there. There's a lake and some swimming/lakeside activities and i don't want to miss them. Some are optional, like swimming or canoeing, but eventually i will have to swim there. There are girls and boys. If it was just girls, i think they would understand, but these guys are super jocks and b-tchy. They'll make fun of me if i don't swim or tip a canoe. I want and need to be able to use a tampon. I AM putting it in the right hole and i tried to relax but it just wouldn't go in. I can't even put like a pinkie finger in! There is a possibility i won't have it while i'm at the camp, but if i do i wanna be prepared.

I caught my brother's friend doing something disrespectful/humiliating. what should i do?

I think you should let it go. I dont think by humiliating him will do any good. Obviously he has issues but you need to talk to him about it and tell him not to do that ever again. But other than that just let it go.

Do I have a chance with her?

I am a straight A student but I also cut class a lot. I am considered an emo/metal head/skater/nerd. She is a cheerleader but we used to hang out a lot. She was similar to me but then we started to go to separate schools and that's when she turned into a girly cheerleader. All of her ex boyfriends are jocks. I am athletic but I don't play sports 24/7. Everytime she has a problem she comes to me. I tell her how much I love her and miss her. She tells me the same thing. I feel special when she tells me that but then the feeling fades when I hear her say it to just about everyone. I don't know if she knows I really mean what I say. I used to smoke alot but then I stopped because I promised her. I get alot of girls in my school but I just see them as friends because I really do love her. Should I turn into a jock to increase my chances with her or am I fine the way I am right now? Right now I skate alot and play soccer on the weekends. Her ex boyfriends played football like everyday and basketball

How many ppl here learned all a bout the illuminati and other such things and got pissed that...?

everything they ever taught you in school was a lie and that your tv is full of crap and has been programming you what to think and how to think it since you were a child? How come everyone has to fall into steretypes like thug or nerd or jock, its ******* mindlessly retarted, how come ppl arent allowed to think for themselves and truly be free? how come ppl that do devil worship and child sacrifice and stuff are programming our youth that those things dont really exist while using them to control them at the same time, man im just venting but who here knows what im talking about and is pissed, i have to pray and smoke weed and take deep breaths living in america with all these stupid *** programmed sheeple walking around without brains following w/e the media and so called educatinal system taught them. who else knows what i mean an dis pissed?

How do I get my log-in history for the month of May?

I have reason to believe somebody opened my email without my permission and I'd like to see my log-in activity because it will tell me if somebody did indeed do that. However, when I go into my log-in activity option it only gives me the last few days.

Is my Y!A account viewable if I send someone a link to a Q&A page?

Can someone click on "my activity" and see my answers and effectively assume co-authorship of my account?

What are some activities I can do with kids 8 and under that relate to Japan?

do simple origami, I was in a class of 20 that at 5 where doing origami, work with the ones that need help, there are books on simple origami you could borrow from a library, why not try making sushi that doesn't need refrigeration, use a cooked meat that won't spoil easily or make them with no fillings, you could tell japanese stories or do dress up, just because you have boys and girls doesn't mean dress up is a no, there are traditional boy and girl japanese attire, maybe do some drumming if you can get access to japanese drums.

Question concerning rights of a student in a public high school?

I would go to the principal. I would also get your parents involved. Also ask the other students in your class how they feel about her as well. If they all feel the same then it is even more strength behind your word when you go to the principal and express your concerns.

Asexuality or immaturity?

My closest friend is eighteen years old - she thinks sex is absolutely disgusting, talking about sex around her makes her cringe and go all red in the face. She even thinks kissing is gross. She will say 'Oh my God - so and so is so hot!' and flirts with guys quite often (when asked if she is interested in someone she just says "I don't like him that way - I just like flirting with him") but she claims she has absolutely no desire sex, kissing or a relationship whatsoever. Is this asexuality or just part of her immaturity? (she does have the maturity level of a 5th or 6th grader to be honest.) I don't know - I just don't really understand it.

College Help ( Details Needed)?

You have little chance of being accepted into any of the selective UC schools for freshman admissions, such as UCSD, UCSB, and UCSC. For someone with such a low GPA, you are eliminating your best chance to get into these campuses, since they give top priority to ccc transfers and they won't even look at your HS GPA as an upper division transfer. San Diego has some of the best community colleges in the state, and they have the Transfer Admission Guarantee and Transfer Alliance Program with ccc to greatly increase your chance of attending UC schools you want. You could probably get into the CSUs if you fulfill all the subject requirements with a C or better, maintain your GPA, and score well on the SAT. You might have a chance with UCR, but even that is marginal for you. Community college transfers tend to have a higher GPA when they do graduate, and have a better chance of attending graduate programs. I personally attended Palomar college, then I graduated from a CSU summa c u m laude and easily got into the graduate program of my choice. In my opinion, the community college professors were better than most at 4 year schools. Many of them work full-time as professionals and teach part-time, so they have much more current skills and knowledge than university professors, on average. My college diplomas don't show any record that I started at a ccc to transfer - the diploma is the same for everyone (except mine shows graduation with honors.)

Joining The British Army After Depression?

We all go through our teenage years doing silly things especially after alcohol! Be open and honest about these events if asked and if your doctor is happy then I hope you get what you want.

Is he cheating on me?

I've been with the same guy since the beginning of January of this year (a little over 7 months). I started to get this wretched gut feeling about a month or two into our relationship. I've never been cheated on before but these are obvious signs to me. I was checking his Facebook account (he never gives me the password for it and all ways changes his e-mails password so I can't read them!) and I was asking a few girls how they knew them, One of them answered that they've been seeing eachother for a while. All though this girl is a lot younger than me (17yrs old) I don't know wether to believe her or not because of he immaturity and want to cause drama, I confronted him about it but he said that she is full of herself and just wants the drama, Don't you think that's a little strange? The other day he was sitting out in my car and I came back in from the store to get in to my car and there were make up smudges that I know for a fact were'nt mine... I have confronted him about this too and still he denies it to his very dying day, I don't know what to do anymore. I don't think he's ever going to tell me the truth?

Do i have borderline personality disorder?

ok this is hard to explain and if you dont experiance this then youre going to think im crazy. But i act diffrent with diffrent people like i feel diffrent with diffrent people. Its not like if im talking to my parents(i talk to my mom my dads a deadbeat but i talk to her how i talk to my friends and drink with her lol shes chill as ****) but what i mean is i see how that person views me like i think of how he thinks of me wether its me being funny,smart,stupid, like i have minor social anxiety and its diffrent with diffrent people im completly myself around my mom my close friends and my girlfirend but if i talk to someone who is like a "gangsta" like i feel so white and i feel like he thinks im a typical whiteboy(wich im not im more like a black person i listen to rap, dont have a father, ****** up childhood, smoke weed errddayyy lol,) sorry if your offended im not racist i have more black friends than anything else. but i just feel like a diffrent person like im being shy and showing a shy stupid version of me lol thats the best way too put it. And then ill try to act cool around other people like jocks, girls when i didnt have a girlfirend, little kids, i kind of show off. Idk what this is i wish i could be myslef the whole day im thinking its social anxiety if anybody has any input or knowledge about this pleas help.

Can you tell me if this paragraph sounds like it could be a real school setting?

It sounds like a very stereotypical school, however what would be easier for you is to describe the school that you previously attended or attend now. Then you will be guaranteed of authenticity.

What is the style for young men for 2011?

this is for a big company to make their next ad, so like it used to be mysterious dark types, and before that there were jocks, so whats now? i would say sort of feminine maybe a bit geeky even, preppy, but what do you think? PLEASE HELP ITS URGENT

Why men cant ware a bra?

hi there, i have been reading a lot of questions and the answers about men wearing a bra. a lot of replys where men should not because there for women and if your gay, i never realized how ignorant and immature our society is. bra is not for women, it is for breasts support weather or not it is a medical condition, fat, implants what ever the case may be. it is breast support. the word brassiere comes down from an old french term as chest protector that refers to the armor in old military times. so the first to wear bras where actually men. and there are plenty of men that have moobs that are not gay and looking for some support or comfort, and just because there not gay they have to not have put up with it when women dont because of what our society has made of it, talk about double standards no one like double standards. men do have brest men can even get breast cancer. men that think they have pecks yes but have breast tissue ther to. one of the answers i found was men should ware bras as often as a women should wear a jock strap, my thought was men have breast, women dont have balls. but to each there own. why is it that our society made bras only for women? and men who would like to weare them have to be scared to, and made fun of?

Is my man having a mid life crisis?

The past few weeks I noticed my live-in boyfriend of 8 years is suddenly very interested in his appearance, exercising everyday, and eating Special K for breakfast. He loves for me to go stay at my parents house, and always makes the excuse that he can't come with me. He used to love staying out at my parents place, because they live in a beautiful home, next to a lake. Lots of stuff to do here. Lately, he's been wanting to be by himself. He told me today that he is very proud of me that I am starting to be more independent of him, and that he thinks I am doing great by staying out here, and not calling him all the time. WTF? He is always on Facebook too. I honestly do not think he is cheating on me though. BUT, I do think he tries to act like he is single. I have a feeling he is on some singles websites too. What should I do without sounding like I am being accusatory? Should I go behind his back and check his computer? He also defriended me on Facebook, but he says he doesn't know why I am not on his friends list anymore. I have asked him millions of times already if he would like to be single. He says no way. My mother thinks he wants his cake & eat it too. He needs me for certain things, like staying in the apartment, because it is in my name. His credit is bad, so the apartment is in my name, and all the bills too, like the electricity. Do you think he stays with me because of this? There is absolutely no passion in our relationship anymore. He doesn't kiss me, or snuggle with me anymore. He sleeps out in the living room on the futon every night, while I stay in the bedroom, reading books. We used to be hot for each other, but he is a cold fish now. I feel very depressed about it all. Should I just leave him? We live in a very fun city, but he is 47, and I am 37. He is always going swimming by himself at night at the local swimming hole too, which bothers me. He does invite me, but sometimes I don't feel like jumping into 67 degree water at 9 o'clock at night. He is acting like Mr. Activity, while he treats me like the old lady that is supposed to stay at home and not have any fun.

How can I gain 10lbs overnight?

I have been on a strict diet for about 3 months because I was almost 50lbs overweight and it was affecting my health. Basically weight watchers/calorie counting/increased activity. I lost about 8lbs the first week, and a steady 2 a week since. However, every once in a while I let myself eat something I really want, in the past 3 months I've had 2 days I let myself eat what I wanted. First day I had 3 slices of pizza for my birthday and half a personal bag of chips later that night. Next day I woke up and weighed myself, I had gained 8.lbs. Over pizza and some chips. That was a month ago. Yesterday I had one serving of Kraft mac and cheese I made with tuna. I woke up today +9.1lbs from yesterday. I thought the pizza was a mistake, it had to have been, but it happened AGAIN TODAY!!! How is this even possible?? I didn't even eat a pound of food let alone almost 10!

Men and Ladies thank me, I just found out how to enlarge penis?

I was a bit immature with my previous questions if you look at my activity which I apologize for.I think I may have found out how to enlarge my penis and I think it's from protein in chicken. It makes sense seeing as how the penis is a muscle so the protein just enlarges it even more. I also think make your penis darker/ tanning it may do the trick as this will block harmful UAV rays strinking it from the sun which causes shrinkage.

Question for the ladies out there around the age of 18?

if you were gonna hook up with a guy and he kept his underwear on would you be creeped out? i ask this because i have what is called jock itch which almost ever guy will encounter in their life. and if i got naked and you saw jock itch how would you react. meep in mind mine isnt that bad just looks really red cuz im not that tan lmao

Could we ever be a couple?

She is a cheerleader and a girly type. She likes pop and alternative rock we used to hang out a lot. I am classified as a nerdy/emo/punk/metal head/skater. I really do have strong feelings for her. I really do. It might be the beginning of love. The thing is that when I tell her I love her and miss her she says the same back to me. At the time I feel special but she says "I love you" and "I miss you" to everyone so the feeling fades. All of her ex boyfriends are jocks but she told me ones she is tiered of guys like that. Yet she always hangs out with them. Do you think I should turn into a jock to impress her? I am pretty athletic I just don't have my live revolving on sports. Or should I just stay the way I am and hope she will one day take what I say seriously?

How to look hot in front of a guy?

I wanna look hot for this guy I like and he is in my school but none of my classes.. I only see him at lunch and in the hallways and graduation rehearsals. How can I look hot for him and how can I tlk to him since he is a jock and I'm a musician lol.

Does it mean something when a guy shakes his head and smiles?

You are making this too complicated. If he DIDNT like you you would know it because he would try to avoid you and certainly would not be friendly, or smile or anything. The issue of course is how MUCH he likes you and that is impossible to tell just by reading a brief write up. He might like you as a friend, or he might really LIKE you, but that is impossible to tell. For all you know, he might have his eye on some other girl around town, but still thinks you are cute, which is why he smiles and shakes his head, as in "what a cute but goofy girl" The number one thing you can do is not stress over it and give it time. If he likes you more than just a friend, it will become obvious in a couple of weeks or so. So relax, be friendly and dont rush things. Some of the best relationships start out as friendships.

Dating advice for a guy (girls help please)?

Wow. Any girl would like to have you as a boyfriend. Be really nice, stay sweet (you already are), and be yourself. Stand out a little bit too, but don't be too cocky, some girls fall for that, but still, don't. Smile at the girl you like, it shows that you're into her and probably she'll smile back.

Is Mexico a failed state?

no one wants to go on living there. The only productive activity involves either selling cheap trinkets to us, or dumping their poor and illiterate into our country...and smuggling drugs and humans into our country.

Are American schools like the movies?

Is it really clicky? Are the cheerleaders/jocks the most popular? Whats your school like? Do people have awesome house parties? ahaha from the movies, it makes me want to go to school over there so bad! (:

It's bad to have a fetish for white guys who are jocks?

No..we all like to have the strong blue eyed man. To me they are just something good to look at, but deep down I prefer my color and culture.

Do you think this man is too immature for a mature relationship?

I met this man and I love him, but I am talking to him about moving in and stuff, and he is like, lets wait a year, and I am like i have money saved and we coudl afford a place. i said we could get a more affordable cell plan for a while and maybe go a while without the Internet, and use my mom's computer, she would not mind. And he is like well we need the internet and I am like, its only for a year until you get a cheapter apartmetn (cause he is on a list for a cheapter place, but its not a sure thing and could take a couple of yaers). Then he is like, whats wrong wtih a year, so we got into a quaral, so I was like, what is wrong with saving. he is 35, older than me, and still lives with his mom, I do too, but I am younger than him. I was like why did you wait so long to apply for that more affordable apartmetn, and he was like I didn't have a girl. Why would he have to have a girl to move out? He is 35, certainly getting his own place would've made it better in finding a girl, bringing dates over after and stuff. So he I am like what's wrong with having a little less for a while, and he is like maybe we could find soemthing, lets see. So its not only that, but he could be very immature. he is 35 and his mom treats him like a child, doing his laundry and making him clean hsi room. his sister babys him too. Also, he acts like a teenager with his friends, going on rides and stuff, which I like too, but he goes to amuesemtn parks all teh time, I like it occasionally. Like he wants me to go with him and him and sisters group to the water park, which I will do, byut his friends are very routy and childish, I love them, but tehy could be too much and they6 are pushying, liek go on this ride, even if I say I dont want to. Also, his friends make him burn rubber in teh car, another words hit the gas really fast, which is not only dangerous, but could ruin his tires which are veyr expensive! I told him taht hsi not repsonsible, which he agreed, but is that a sign of immaturity that he does all this?

What are some good inner thigh and calve workouts?

Running, squats, lunges, scissors, and if you get on your hands and knees and stick one leg straight out and move it in circles it tones your inner thighs really good!

How to deal with a friend who thinks her kids are genetically superior?

Okay, all of us Moms think our kids are amazing and prodigies and beautiful and angel (well, they are, right?) My kids are 33 months and 11 months, and I'm 22 so it's hard for me to find friends being 10 hours away from my roots. So I've been lucky enough to find a couple girls my age with kids (you know, people who won't judge me based on my age is really all I look for at this point). One of the girls though.. She's 19, has a 14 month old and a 2 month old. I've gotten past her mooching and immaturity, frankly, I kind of feel bad for the girl. But when she gets to talking about her kids it just pushes my buttons. I have been STRUGGLING for months to help my son on the potty (which he finally got this weekend, woohoo!), and she is like "What? Even [Baby#1] is going on the potty." I just want to scream and be like "no you're just-turned-one-year-old-son is NOT going on the potty!" Oh and did I mention there is ALWAYS something wrong with her or the kids. I know being a new mother is scary, but to say "My son has cancer!" (not so drastic) when you feel a lump (and later found out that everybody has that bump under their nipple) and before even going to the doctor... it's aggravating! I am in a pickle because I'm a stay-at-home mom and don't have many opportunities to meet people but.. is it even worth it? It really gets on my nerves! I guess I just really need to vent to someone other than my husband lol.

My friend dumped me for the popular crowd but he doesn't even fit in with them?

well in life they wonna fit with other crowds do not think that since shes with that crowd that u have to be most of the cool crowds are bad people so just dont care and find a crowd that u like !!!!!

Should I contact the police?

well you say it was six weeks since you have seen her...why not go and knock on the door....if you get no reply ...then peek through the letter box...if there is a ton of mail and or papers on the floor ...it might be prudent to ask your neighbours if they have seen the women and children.....if they have not...then you might want to call the police ...i think from my own point of view...that i would have called sooner..it may be nothing..but the police would rather hear your concerns,then they can make the call to check it out or not...(they can check mobile and land line phone bills/numbers etc...they also have access to house occupiers names etc..if you don't already know her/their names..)they also have the power to break down doors etc...to gain entry if they are as concerned as you...hope all is well...too many people these days live next to each other and don't know the neighbours..re lots of cases of mainly elderly people being found dead in the uk especially in the winter...i have known people not know who's next door and they have lived next door for 10-20-or even 30 years!are you being too nosey..no just a concerned neighbour....good luck and i hope it turns out all is well and innocent

What should I do? Should I leave him alone for a while?

What should I do? I love this guy I've been dating for almost a year. He has a lot of personal issues which makes it kinda hard to spend time together. I know he loves me but I'm confused at how if he's in love with me how he can go almost a week without seeing me. He has been there for me threw so much and I have helped him deal with many things also. He has children and muscular of his time goes to them he is a good father so I would never try to interfere with that but I want more. Am I being selfish? I don't always go about telling him how I feel in the most mature way I admit and I think my immaturity to deal is beginning to push him away. I know that he wants me in his life but I'm use to men making things all about me and he's different. Am I being selfish with his time? I know I make him happy and he makes me happy I just don't want my insecurities to ruin us. He is 9 yrs older. Why does he love this way or is it that unthinking to hard? He keeps telling me he's just trying to get his life right which I believe but what about me?

Is this an OK story idea? What do you think?

I think it's ok but perhaps a bit dull tbh.. maybe you could add a twist like a serious illness affecting one of the girls and then it becomes clear that life is so important and that all the cheating is shallow and hurtful. The girls can become close again... something like that perhaps.

MY EX GIRLFRIEND TXTED ME TODAY N SAID SHE MISSES ME?

Sounds like you have a chance to get her back. Since she said she still does not want to be friends or be your girlfriend you need to give her some space. Don't get pushy just go on no contact for a bit and let her contact you when she is ready. Hope this helps.

How many young guys prefer to date older women to younger girls?

im 24 and i have tried very hard to tolerate girls of my age group (from about 19 - 25) and can NOT handle the immaturity anymore. however i have dated a couple older women and i have had much better luck with them, because i can talk to them more and they seem to understand me more then girls my age level do. its actually hard to go back to dateing girls my age because they are so snobby and insecure, they dont know how to just be normal and talk to a guy and be down to earth, they got all these emotional problems that older women dont have anymore. they are just more easygoing and not so critical i notice. why cant younger girls act like this? is it that hard to humble yourselves and be nice for a change? older women rock.

Summer barbecue party ideas?

anyone have any ideas for summer parties? I need ideas on decoration, food, desserts, any games/activities etc...thanks!!

What should I do? I want to be with her?

I am a straight A student but I also cut class a lot. I am considered an emo/metal head/skater/nerd. She is a cheerleader but we used to hang out a lot. She was similar to me but then we started to go to separate schools and that's when she turned into a girly cheerleader. All of her ex boyfriends are jocks. I am athletic but I don't play sports 24/7. Everytime she has a problem she comes to me. I tell her how much I love her and miss her. She tells me the same thing. I feel special when she tells me that but then the feeling fades when I hear her say it to just about everyone. I don't know if she knows I really mean what I say. I used to smoke alot but then I stopped because I promised her. I get alot of girls in my school but I just see them as friends because I really do love her. Should I turn into a jock to increase my chances with her or am I fine the way I am right now? Right now I skate alot and play soccer on the weekends. Her ex boyfriends played football like everyday and basketball

Do you think he likes me? please please answer!?

coming from a guy, id say yeah he does, and id also say go for it! its better then wondering "what if"

I recieved and entry level seperataion or (els) in 2006 can i ever reinlist ? i now have a bs dfegree age 24?

In 2006 I recieved a uncharaterized discharge because I basically didnt know how to respect authority. Now older and wiser with a family and a wife i see life in a new prospective and know the immaturity of my ways back then. I went back to college and will have my bachlors degree in 6 months will i be able to get an uncharaterized dischage up graded as the code is (jga) i have no re code any experenced help will be greatly appreciated. and would like to croos over from blue to green possibly go to ocs my gpa is 3.4 and my asvab when i took it in 2006 was a 69 thanks.

I hurt my ex alot. i miss him like crazy! it tears me apar, will i ever get him back?

we met last summer. he was the first person i liked alot and opened to. he is two years older me. im 20. we live in different cities, far away and i would delete him off my msn because of small arguments. i was depressed, and would depend on him to be happy since i was never in a relationship. he even told me not to delete him, but i was immature, and idk i guess its all my fault. he eventtually blocked me from facebook and msn because of my immaturity which was in december. i miss him so much, i always think about him. im in my second year of university. im planning to move out to his city. and yes i can get other guys, i am pretty, and fit. all i want is him though. it tears me apart thinking of him with being with someone else. advice please?

My friend is so immature (kinda long soz)?

My advice is that you should just treat him like a kid. He really won't know what to do. After reading that, I'm sure it'll work. Also, warn him if he continues and never forgive him. Scare him and pretend to tell the teacher, or actually do it behind his back. Just tell the teacher to warn him and tell him that he/she will always be looking out for him. Hope this helps!

Ideas for a kids' group community service project?

I'm organizing a community service activity for a group of 30-50 kids ages 3 through 12 and need ideas. The activity will be about 1 or 1.5 hours long. I don't want to collect money or supplies because that is more the parents doing it and the kids doing nothing - besides, what would we do at the actual activity? Some ideas so far are writing letters to cheer up chronically ill kids through a penpal program at our local children's hospital or tying fleece scarves to donate to local homeless shelters in the winter.

Why doesn't the world show any mercy on outcasts like me?

Now look outcasts like me we are jackasses.We Have really annoying,gross,crude,strange habits,We have a habit of solving conflicts through threats and violence,and when you take us to a theme park when we're children we don't know that we're supposed to ride the rides.Needless to say we suffer severe emotional abuse because of it.Look guys like me we deserve mercy.We're just really stupid and immature.Do you think there could be special places for outcasts who just don't fit in.So that we can get an education and learn in peace without having to worry about getting tormented by cruel classmates who attend regular school.Look its nearly impossible for guys like me to control ourselves when we're angered or aroused because of our immaturity and life inexperience.Look its perfect With these establishments for dysfunctional outcasts the teachers would be required not to have any sex appeal thus no risk of sexual assault.and the establishments would be required to tutor any students who don't understand the work.These dysfunctional outcasts would be required to live there until they reach the age of 25,and that way they'll have enought life expierenece to kepp from doing stupid things.These establishments would be required to provide schooling preschool through high school and then provide college education so that they could get a college degree and they could even get a PH.D.Also while there they would be required to take anger management classes and conflict resolution classes so when they get out at age 25 they could handle any situations they may encounter in a mature non violent manner.These establishments would also be required to have Gyms for their P.E.Look please agree with me and mark this question as interesting.Think about itdydfunctional outcasts aka pathetic losers can finally have a break they could get an education without having to worry about getting tormented by cruel classmates,and not have to worry about getting aroused by the sexy female teachers and girls who go to the regular schoolsand then they wouldn't have to be worried about being provoked into commiting a crime that would get them expelled from school and poossibly even arrested.Another thing they wouldn't have to be worried about is there cruel classmates making up a story about them and causing them to get expelled fror it.Believe it or not some of the r egular schools can be extremely cruel the cruel classmates would make up a story about you and when you try to explain to the principal that you didn't do it he would just say "We're just gonna have to take their word for it"Because he doesn't like you nor does the school because you're a pathetic loser.Look its perfect With these establishments for the dysfunctional outcasts they could be separate frome the people who go to the regular schools who are so mean to them there,and because no ones going to be mean to them there at these special establishments for dysfunctional outcasts Guess what NO MORE SCHOOL VIOLENCE!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!This is perfect think about it no more violence no more cruelty There would be nothing for these dysfunctional outcasts to be vengeful about.

Where should me and my bf go?

Where should we go to hang out today evening? And like fun activities do you advise?? :) I want to keep the relationship fun. P.S. Not the movies again , lol thanks in advance.

Am I being blackmailed?

A little while ago my parents decided that they were going to make me sign a contract pretty much saying that I have to do all the chores in the house without complaining and that i can't ask my real dad or anyone for money to help me pay for a 1500$ school trip and that they wouldn't pay for it either. So they're practically making me do all the housework without time to get a real job or anymoney to pay for this trip. I tried asking, since they included my dad's name in the document to have him see it and approve of it; which i was denied, they then said i couldn't leave the room until i signed it so i had no other choice. Their reason is that despite the fact i'm an honor student, club leader and involved with a bunch of school activities, i'm lazy and need to start acting like an adult. If I don't, and break any of the rules in the contract then once i turn 18 they'll kick me out of the house. Right now with chores they're literally taking it as far as making me clean my stepbrothers piss off the floor, i don't know what to do! I love my parents and all, but they forced me to sign a contract that i can't back out of.

I like her, but I don't like her?

Oh gosh man... I would stay clear of that. I've been in that kinda of thing & it's not fun... even if you did get her you wouldn't be able to change her. But who knows. Maybe you should experience it for yourself. I wish you luck.

What fraternity should i join this year?

hey so im going off to college this fall (UWashington) and my friend and i want to join a fraternity. We dont wanna join one of those houses with all the fancy crap and the tradition and the blazers we wanna join one where everyone has a good time and its not so cliquey. like one where everyone is kind of middle class and cool and where the cool, but not jock kids are accepted.

How do you deal with an immature boyfriend?

Hi so I have my boyfriend whom I love so much, but we both have our quirks, which can make eachother a bit mad or annoyed. I'm working on mine, but it doesn't seem like he's working on his very much. Basically when he gets mad he pouts and won't talk to me and so we spend half the day being mad at eachother or I'm just distraught because I have no clue what I can do to help him. We're in highschool and he does this in class. I find it a bit embarassing when he does and I've told him but usually he just pouts about it. He knows he acts this way and I don't appreciate it, but he does it anyways. I look at it as an immaturity thing. He's not afraid of telling me things; he just doesn't and starts to sulk. I've talk to him many times, but I'm still at a loss of what to do. I love him to death and I hate saying I want him to change, but I think it'd be a change for the better. Just like me not being jealous anymore. How do I help him when he's in this state and is there any way to help him speed up this process of maturing?

In love with the wrong guy...?

Let him know how you feel. Its not about whos better looking, bright or charming. I mean if you connect with him thats what matters. Looks will only last for so long. But if you have chemestry with him then what are you waiting for. Let him know.

Why are idiotic people popular, but smart people Not popular?

Bimbos, jocks, and every other common idiot is loved by society and people of higher intelligence are not as popular. Are dumb people less threatening? Are dumb people like puppies just cute and idiotic and therefore completely non threatening to be around?

Tough situation amongst friends...?

I'm having a difficult situation with two of my friends. It's hard for me to summarize above. I am a 25 year old straight male, who has 2 younger friends, (20 and 22), both male also, who have been putting me in a difficult place in our friendship. The 20 year old (let's call him Bob to make it easy) and I have been friends for 2 years, and though our friendship has had it's ups and downs, we have managed to maintain a strong friendship. Throughout the course of the friendship, Bob had demonstrated some attachment and obsessive issues. There were a few occasions when I didn't answer my cell phone, and I was busy, and he showed up at my house. Also, time where he was angry with me because he felt as if he wasn't getting the attention in our friendship he deserved. We talked about all of this, and I thought it was resolved. Though he has never said anything, I do notice that he looks at guys, and I suspect he may be gay. He is the product of a single mother home, and refuses to share much of he past, before moving to our small town 2 years ago. I don't have any problems with gay people, and I would still be his friend no matter what his sexual preference. Then, a few months ago, I met another friend, who we'll call Steve. Steve and I have a lot of similar interests, so we ended up becoming really good friends. We both are straight, and enjoy musical theatre, and will talk at length about some of our favorite shows, and other topics. Because we are both talkers, and Bob isn't, I believe he often feels left out, but when I try to include him, he shows no interest in the topics we are talking about, and when I pry for a subject he's interested in, he doesn't want to share. This problem has started to come to the point where Bob is becoming angry, and has yelled at me and Steve on several occasions, and insulting us. Bob always apologizes for his behavior, but it still makes me a little uneasy. I've also noticed that Bob stares at me a lot, and will often avoid talking to me in group settings. I chalk much of it up to immaturity, but I would think someone who is an older 20 would have some of these problems under control. I'm very confused as to what is going on, and how to address it. Does anyone have any input? Thanks!

I am in high and i am dating a nice beautiful blonde girl but there is one problem shes a band nerd?

i am a jock who plays every sport in the book but all my friends are trying to make me go out with the most popular girl in the town ya she is hot! like really hot but she to how do i say full of her self please help nice band girl or hot popular girl

Super itchy penis - not sure why?

Over the last few months my penis, scrotum, and thigh closest to the groin have been extremely itchy - they turn red like rashes and once I start to itch, it's hard to stop - is it jock itch? is there any way to help this?

I'll be blunt about me?

High school i did horrible in i had little motivation and was going through a lot at the moment. I graduated with a high school diploma ( barely but still got it ) and never thought about going to college. Well its been a year since i've been out and i just want to go to college terribly, i want to continue my education and become an Anesthesiologist but im afraid that, because of my immaturity in high school i have ruined my future... if anyone has any advice for me i'll be more than appreciative to have it. One last thing if there is still a chance for me to become an Anesthesiologist i will gladly bust my *** and spend every waking moment to achieve that goal. I just have to know there is still hope.

Why are some teenagers and people in their 20s so immature?

As the measurement of maturity is most often linked to a persons responsibilities and how they deal with them, I feel that I should point out, like Andres has, that your grandparents as young adults likely saw healthier economic times. My grandfather payed his way through medical school with a job at Sears. The American ''nuclear family'' ideal is no longer realistic, and our quality as adults should not be held up to that standard of measurement.

Anyone have any advice on dating?

Basically, I'm almost 18 now and I've been single my whole life. I'm sick of being the oddball just because I've never dated. What am I supposed to do? Is it just because I'm not a jock like all the other guys?

Do you think this guy liked me or something?

So I was at my friends church for a youth group meeting and we were watching a movie. My friend and I were sitting in the back and this one kid was sitting a little to the right of me and up a bit. The ENTIRE time he kept looking (or staring) with this blank expression on his face. Every time I caught him looking at me him look away though. Then one minute we locked eyes for a few seconds but then I looked away. I'm pretty average big blue eyes, medium length brown hair, I'm a little chubby like 155 lbs 5'7. This guy that was looking at me was the really hot jock kind of guy that I would never think would like me. But what do you think by his actions? Thanks! :)

Do you think I have a right to be mad?

i think if theyre underage, that helps you out, cause you can call the police on them and put an end to all this

Have I made a fool of myself by being too drunk?

You made a drunk fool of yourself. You need to reapologize to your friend. By what she said you do this often so you might want to consider not getting drunk. I can't stand drunks! It gets old fast. Nobody enjoys having you around being so dramatic and unpredictable. Sucks for your ex too, you should if just ignored her if she bothered you so much. Make things right with your friends and stop being a drunk mess, you're going to push your loved ones away.

Chornic itchy ball syndrome?

HI I seem to suffer from CIBS chronic itchy ball syndrome . my sac icthy all the time . I shower daily and always scrub my balls with a goat milk soap and even use lotions. I know i do not have crabs , herpes or warts . I am pretty clean shaven down there so it is not hair affecting it. i do play alot of sports and get really really itchy balls from my jock in baseball . also i wear cotton , polyester , and silk boxers and it still itches . i also wear spanks aka spandex shorts for some sports and there nylon . they still give me the itch fever .

If i repeat year 12, what will my chances of getting into an ivy league school in america be?

i'm australian, and it has always been my dream to study at harvard college. my father, who died when i was 5, was american and he studied there and my entire life i've wanted to study there too. i'm 20 years old and completed year 12 three years ago but i graduated with average results (an enter score of 75), there have been quite drastic things that have caused me to graduate with these results and i have been forced to work since leaving school in order to support my family. my mother was admitted into hospital for severe depression and attempting suicide several times, and she was unable to work. my sister is autistic and also cannot work so for the past three/four years i have been working to support my family. my mum has finally recovered some and has retuned to her job as a nurse, and i feel like it's my turn to finally achieve my dreams. ok i'm terribly sorry for the sob story but i just want to explain my situation. i am wanting to repeat my final year of high school at tafe, in order to increase my chances of getting into harvard. i know it's tremendously competitive, so i'm just wondering if repeating my senior year would hinder my chances of getting in? i know they also consider community involvement and extra circular activities and i am willing to work very hard to achieve these. so given my age and my situation do you think it would be at all possible for me to get in? thank you!

If you sense something isn't right should you follow your heart?

Don't follow your heart, it's to emotional. Follow the facts, and drop all of the drama of this whole thing before you become the director. Stop using something as public as the social source of communication to do things so private as caring for someone.

Where to take a jock on a date?

I am an artist type girl I love jazz and theater. And I asked out this jock that I like a lot..the only issue is I have no clue what "jocks" do on dates I am always with other artsy people. We live in a small town. Lots of outdoor space and little shops. I want to stay away from the movies because then we cant talk or get to know each other HELP!

Is it normal to be so tired?

Hi, I'm 17 and im 15 weeks pregnant as of yesterday. Lately, i've been so tired after doing the most miniscule activities, that i can hardly do anything. I thought maybe it might be the heat and with me already growing and so forth, but now im not sure. I walk around a little bit and i feel like i haven't slept in years. Is this normal? and if so, is there anything i can do to not be so tired?

Can I get pregnant by this ? please help?

my boyfriend and I where dry humping. he had his jocks and i had my knickers on . his ***** was penetrating me through my knickers and he ejaculated

Being blackballed by property owner? Recourse?

you have NO case here. you ASSUME that because you didn't get the apartment, the landlord said something wrong. You even said it "suspect something is wrong"

Is this offer a scam?

I looked at the link you provided for about five seconds and have concluded that it is indeed a scam. Did you notice the part about employees paying their own money to make things go faster. It seems too flashy for the dialog too. I would say NO if I were you!!!!!!

What is the best activity to do in San Diego for a double date when in high school?

I want to take this girl out but she can only do it in a group cause of parents so what or where could we go and have a good time doing something?

I hate my life, feeling suicidal, what should I do with this life?

I've had adhd since I was born. I was bullied and picked on every year. I'm surprised how I've been able to get my diploma and now I'm working on getting a college degree. I feel like my life has no purpose. I used to be a faithful muslim but I became agnostic due to lack of evidence of life after death and God. I'm taking anti depressants but they don't seem to work. I meet up with a counsler every two weeks. I have no friends. I have nothing interesting to say when I'm with people. I always feel awkward. my family lives in another country. I'm about to turn 21 but I find life pointless and wasteful. I have no interest in activities. Even if I get hired by an employer, I won't be able to maintain the job because of my disabilities.I have speech disorders, I can't speak clearly and loud enough most of the time. there's a lot I wanna say here but people ain't gonna read it if I write too much. please tell me what to do. I've been praying to God every day of my boring life but I still haven't gotten an answer. I'm bordering suicide. my life stinks and it's getting worse. :(

Am I hacked on my account?

if you didint write it than you were hacked change your password go to my stuff than account settings and from there you can change it

Why do the English refer to the Scottish as "Jocks"?

My belief, as one of the Edimbourgeoisie, is that it comes from, "we are all Jock Tamson's bairns".

What do you have listed for your facebook profile activities and interests?

well, ill be honest, i listed the activities that i love doin in the activities space and i my intrests in my intrest space.. haha!!! come on! just write what u do, write ur intrests and activities that u do, everyone has their favourites. :P CHEERS! ~neal bainz

What is a fun cheap activity i can do?

ok so, so far my summer is pretty wack. =( sooo any ideas on a fun cheap activity i can do. please help me!

Some guy made a website about me?

I'm pretty sure that's illegal, in some way. If the whole point is to insult you, then their's not much of a point having that site, and should be deleted. Totally ridiculous.

Is there a way to keep track of the things you "like" on Facebook?

I know that the minifeed records when you "like" the page for a band, activity etc. but nothing ever shows up on your page if you "like" someone's pictures, wallpost or comments and I've had it happen before where you leave the "liked" post not realizing that you had accidentally "liked" it. Maybe it's just me being paranoid, but I'm always afraid of awkwardly "liking" a post from someone I don't know very well, especially if it was from a long time ago. Does anyone know if there's a record of your Facebook activity somewhere or if there's someway to check?

Do I have a chance with her?

I am a straight A student but I also cut class a lot. I am considered an emo/metal head/skater/nerd. She is a cheerleader but we used to hang out a lot. She was similar to me but then we started to go to separate schools and that's when she turned into a girly cheerleader. All of her ex boyfriends are jocks. I am athletic but I don't play sports 24/7. Everytime she has a problem she comes to me. I tell her how much I love her and miss her. She tells me the same thing. I feel special when she tells me that but then the feeling fades when I hear her say it to just about everyone. I don't know if she knows I really mean what I say. I used to smoke alot but then I stopped because I promised her. I get alot of girls in my school but I just see them as friends because I really do love her. Should I turn into a jock to increase my chances with her or am I fine the way I am right now? Right now I skate alot and play soccer on the weekends. Her ex boyfriends played football like everyday and basketball

Feeling way older than I really am? (READ DESCRIPTION)?

There is certainly nothing wrong with feeling that way. I have always tried to be mature for my age.

Dating advice for a guy (hopefully from a girl)?

ive got a 4.0, short hair, abs, im on varsity sports teams, ive never been caught doing drugs or having sex or anything. im friends with all the popular jock guys, we hang out and stuff all the time. i play guitar and sing (kind of a ray lamontagne-ish voice). for some reason though i havent really been clicking with any girls. maybe my standards are too high? am i not noticing flirty signs? i am kinda quiet and reserved, but i try to be nice to everyone... whats wrong with me? what should i do?

How and where do i touch him to make him feel good (not necessarily sexually)?

Try running your fingers softly over his stomach and back and basically his whole torso when you're cuddling, not like tickling like you said just kind of like rubbing his back but with your finger tips, if you have nails use those but very softly it feels very nice. Just stuff that you think you would like him to do, it's kind of a trial and error. Also somethings are better if you find out for yourself :) good luck.

Would redefining marriage to mean any consenting relationship put children at risk?

Since prehistoric times and in cultures not influenced by Judaeo-Christianity, marriage has meant the mating union of a man and woman. Marriage has brought clear advantages to children who can count on both mother and father for material support, education, and nurturance through two decades of immaturity. Would a degraded definition that allows any consenting relationship to have the legal status of marriage endanger children's welfare?

Is High School that bad?

Im a guy too and i started high school last year so im about to be a sophomore.... I was sooooo nervous and terrified but i became friends with everybody from different grades and all.... just be yourself and have your fun also you'll make friends and i had the same worry about the lunch thing.... a group of seniors called me over and we instantly became friends and i was sad they graduated.... you'll make it through and once you walk in you wont know why you were nervous.... P.S. freshman friday was on my birthday last year at my school but its not real so dont worry about it.... good luck and have fun and most likely if you were popular in middle school you will be in high school too like i am....

Why do the English refer to the Scottish as "Jocks"?

I am Irish and dont really care what the English call us because they are not that perfect themselves and people have names for them as we do for the Americans such as the Yanks.

Why am I so different from everyone else? Do I have an intellectual disability?

That sound somewhat like me, but I have no mental disabilities so I think your ok. Maybe you can look into different personality types because some of the ones I seen can be like what you described If you like to spend time alone I would suggest looking into Introversion (a personality trait)

I need a few name ideas for a book. help?

My advice is don't put to much thought into the name, and just pick ones you like. It will make it seem more natural then picking ones that match the characters perfectly. It will seem less convoluted. If you cannot think of a name, try searching for baby name list on google. Try one like this http://www.babynames.com/.

Where to find a coslplay?

I am trying to find a colsplay near me is there a website that mentions where they are how long they are the activities and when they are

Do you know what movie this is?

"Murder by Numbers" a href="http://www.imdb.com/title/tt0264935/" rel="nofollow"http://www.imdb.com/title/tt0264935//a

Ideas for a kids' group community service project?

I'm organizing a community service activity for a group of 30-50 kids ages 3 through 12 and need ideas. The activity will be about 1 or 1.5 hours long. I don't want to collect money or supplies because that is more the parents doing it and the kids doing nothing - besides, what would we do at the actual activity? Some ideas so far are writing letters to cheer up chronically ill kids through a penpal program at our local children's hospital or tying fleece scarves to donate to local homeless shelters in the winter.

Could you rate the start of my story?

The beginning is interesting enough. I wondered "hum...why does this person have a wig?" It sounds fairly well-written. I'd just watch out for separating the sentences so it's easier to read.

With this background can you understand that my life is over?

was a fairly good student when younger and went off to a nice university. I guess I was having trouble coping so I suddenly changed my major from Physics to Computer Science to Literature which was disastrous. Every second of this was hell. To this day I feel terrible for missing out on my mental development in college. Been depressed since, not really finding work. Now as I'm over 30, I made the decision to go to grad school and complete a 2nd BA. However, what I did was pretty horrible. My whole life has been affected, including being confused about my educational goals. So, I studied undergrad math for a semester. As I take the math I realize how I just can't make up for my previous error in terms of my personal development. If I complete a BA in math (which I am not enjoying) it will be a halfhearted attempt just allowing me to go on with my life. I don't know how much of my decision was caused by depression, immaturity, or other psychological problems. One of the most painful things is that no one else really has any idea how I feel. But what do you think about my current course of action... which is changing my major (at a local state uni) by getting a 2nd BA and then going to grad school.

For college applications, hosting a food drive counts as what?

Hmm it's first and foremost community service...then leadership. Is there a way to list all the roles? If not, deff put it under leadership...looks really good.

Am I being blackmailed?

A little while ago my parents decided that they were going to make me sign a contract pretty much saying that I have to do all the chores in the house without complaining and that i can't ask my real dad or anyone for money to help me pay for a 1500$ school trip and that they wouldn't pay for it either. So they're practically making me do all the housework without time to get a real job or anymoney to pay for this trip. I tried asking, since they included my dad's name in the document to have him see it and approve of it; which i was denied, they then said i couldn't leave the room until i signed it so i had no other choice. Their reason is that despite the fact i'm an honor student, club leader and involved with a bunch of school activities, i'm lazy and need to start acting like an adult. If I don't, and break any of the rules in the contract then once i turn 18 they'll kick me out of the house. Right now with chores they're literally taking it as far as making me clean my stepbrothers piss off the floor, i don't know what to do! I love my parents and all, but they forced me to sign a contract that i can't back out of.

Powers of God and our immaturity?

If casting out demons and raising the dead are only the beginning of our God given abilities why are there not more people doing it.

What kind of Christian Bible should i get?

Okay, so i believe in and love god, i also look up a lot of information on him to educate myself about him since i do not have a bible, i have never read a bible before and do not go to church, with this stated what kind of christian bible do you think i should buy? and please atheists don't comment negatively on my question you are only showing your own ignorance and immaturity.

Republicans blame the 2006 House for the Recession, Funny how they are not blaming the 2010 House for anything?

Sorry, but CNBC, not Fox, initiated the Tea Party. And they pointed fingers at the new administration a href="http://www.cnbc.com/id/29283701/Rick_Santelli_s_Shout_Heard_Round_the_World" rel="nofollow"http://www.cnbc.com/id/29283701/Rick_San…/a

I have a question on jock straps?

I have a jockstrap that looks like regular underwear (whity tighties) and was just wondering if this will increase my chances of getting jock itch and if there are different types of jock straps.

How can I get my mom help?

You can not change her. You will have to take care of yourself and possibly your brother to. Nothing you can do for her she is an adulto and it is her choice to do the things she does. Try to protect yourself and hide your valuables as best you can she will take everything you have if you dont.

Is he playing me? Or could this really be something?

There's this guy who's been asking me out since january and telling me how much he loves my personality and thinks we could make a great couple. However, he dated my best friend and so I've been trying to let this crush go. We ended up alone together once and we almost kissed but I told him we couldn't because I felt like it would be weird to date a friend's ex. But, it's like neither of us can let it go. There's all of this sexual tension whenever I see him now and for months he's been wishing I'd reconsider. So the other night, I went over to his house and we watched a movie and ended up making out. I really like him, but he's a jock (not my type) and he dated my best friend. We were both really into it after so much repression of feelings and we did a little more than I expected myself to want to. He kept telling me how much he liked to kiss me and how much he liked to hold me in his arms and that I had beautiful eyes (which is the thing he always says about me, we have nice eye contact) and I know he was sincere because he's not a good lyer, but I'm still afraid he wants me for the wrong reasons. Is that stuff that a player might sincerely say to a girl he was hooking up with? Or do you think he could be something real?

Why do people still call me quiet/shy when I'm not?

Usualy that says that some of ur friends think that becaues they r shy even if thats not entirly true they think it

What should you say on a first txt to someone who you want to get close to, but don't want to be too forward?

Go for the older guy! the age difference isn't that bad, you're of a legal age and everyone around you should be cool with it since it's a guy you met at church ! As a bonus since you met him at church, he shouldn't mind you waiting to have sex and he has to act appropriate so he doesn't become a pariah to the church.

Threat: What would you do if your son wants you dead over phone upgrade?

I wouldn't take the threat too seriously. He sounds like he's doing well and so I wouldn't expect such an act to be part of his behavior (he's not involved in drugs and drinking etc). I personally would dismiss the notes as just a phase. They like to get attention when they don't get things their way. What you have to do is be resolute and stick by your decision. If you change your mind then they learn they can get things they want by doing certain actions to make you change your mind. Like I said stick by your decision and make sure he understands your reasons for it along with you wont change your mind. You should talk to him as well about them maybe saying they are inappropriate. Personally I see nothing wrong with what you have done, however young kids don't always understand the big picture behind certain decisions adults make.

What is the relationship between revolutionary activity and terrorism? And Maoists?

Hi. So I'm having trouble differentiating the difference between revolutionary activity and terrorism. I'm also having trouble differentiating between how Maoist groups differ from other terrorist groups? Any help would be greatly appreciated as I am attempting to write a paper but I'm kind of at an impasse trying to understand these seemingly subtle differences. Thank you in advance!

How and where do i touch him to make him feel good (not necessarily sexually)?

I know some people like their earlobes massaged or sucked because it is actually a sensitive spot but as for me, neck and top of the head. If I was ever feeling down and my girl just wanted to make me feel better, she'd rub my shoulders. That always made me feel somewhat better.

Husband has hard time compromising.....?

My husband and I have been married for 22 years and have two wonderful kids. He's a great guy overall but when it comes to us doing things together on the weekends or on vacation, it seems to be almost impossible for him to compromise. We always do what he wants to do. Every movie we go to a theater to see, every one we rent, and every TV show we watch is chosen by him. When we go on vacation, he pretty much calls the shots then too. It has been this way for the majority of our marriage and when we were younger, I thought it was just immaturity. I've tried to mention movies I would like to see or something like that but he always makes sarcastic remarks about my choices and on the rare occassions where we've done something I want to do, he complains. When I try to speak up about what I perceive as selfishness, a huge argument breaks out. He will yell and cuss and tell me that I'm putting him down or he'll say "If I'm so bad, why are you here?" Really? It's like I can't say anything to him without him putting up a wall. He will sometimes say "Well, I know I need to change some things" but that doesn't happen or it happens for a while and then goes right back to the way it was. I guess I should just not say anything to keep the peace; movies, TV, etc. are way more important to him than to me. It's just that his unwillingness to do anything I want to do is a sign to me that my feelings really don't matter to him. He blames me and says "Well, you've got a mouth; speak up" but I try and WW3 breaks out. Has anyone ever encountered a similar situation? I'd be interested to see how others would approach this kind of thing with someone that's all but impossible to talk to.

Cool places to hang out in London?

Okay I need someone who's been to Cape Town and will know the kind of places I'm looking for if I mention The Shack, Mercury, Assembly, Fiction, Rafikkis... I can't seem to find any places here in London that has that kind of vibe and people... Camden is really cool but where can you hang out apart from the markets that has the cool people but not too dirty? There's loads of cool places here but I think we looking for the cool people... Not jocks or heals and short skirts!! I'm not trying to offend anyone I'm just trying to get the idea across...Also the music we like to is rock n roll, alternative, bit of trance, drum n bass and electro.... That should help.. Your answers will be much appreciated!! Thanks a lot...

Friend ignores me when she's angry with me, why?

Well I don't understand this but whenever she is angry with me she ignores me. And this really pisses me off, nothing can be resolved and only when she calms down she will start talking to me again. What is this? Immaturity? I don't understand it causes more trouble.

I've been getting really bored with stuff lately?

I used to have a pretty decent life, though I always felt like the third wheel in stuff like social activities. I used to have a best friend, then he turned into a a cussing, idiotic jerk. Sometimes I wish we still hung out but now I realise I'm better than that. Now I'm kind of a loner and I hate it. I think about it and I've never had a friend I could act normal around. I never leave my house anymore. I want to go out and see a movie with friends or something but I have literally none. I was sort of accepted into 1 friend group but I quickly left them because I still couldn't act normal around them and some of them were jerks. But I've been so bored lately. Haven't done anything in months. I feel I've been stuck in a rut. I'm up on facebook all night, or xbox till 1 in the morning. I hate it. So I thought I'd turn to people on the Internet. They're always literal, kind and considerate. Help?

Would you comment on another monkey poem please?

Not quite a sword, more butter knife... Now that's a line, irregardless of your flawed tape measure later in life! lol Fun read.

Would it be a dumb thing to do?

I go to Cyber School. I used to go to public school (and I'm not going back), but I do really miss just being around people sometimes I get really lonely. I found out that since I still live in the district I could go to the dances and school activities. They have to let me. I think it would be cool to go to the dances by myself of course just to see what's up. I mean this is my last year (12th) coming up and I've never been to a dance of any kind before. Or do you think I would just get in the way? I mean I'm used to feeling like a third wheel, I don't mind that. I just thought I could go say hi to some of my old friends and chat. Should I? I really really want to.

Should I tell my girlfriends mom?

i caught my gf talking to her ex bf and his friends on facebook this past week. Her ex cheated on her and only dated a month and his friends are huge dirtballs and do drugs and party all the time (typical hs jocks) shes not that kind of girl but she delt with it because "hes hot". We have been together 3 years now and last week she was talking to them like planning to hang out. I confronted her and she said she wasnt interested in him they are just funny and fun to hang out with. I broke up with her and she begged for me back for a day so i talked to her and told her she cant talk to them anymore or ever and she said she promised but needed space so i stoped texting her and (shes logged on to fb on my phone) now shes messaging his friend trying to get him to call her ex so they can hang out tonight... idk what to do, I dont want to say **** you and lose her forever.. should i talk to her mom and tell her whats going on so she stops her from hanging out with them>? (her mom wont let her hanging around kids that drink all the time and do drugs)

Where to visit in Maine?

I've been wanting to take a trip to Maine for a small vacation but do not know the area at all. I live on Long Island (NY). What would be the best town area to go visit do you all think? A place with some nice sight-seeing but with some good shopping outlets and more "non trail/hiking" type of activities? Thanks

Which colleges in Virginia can I get into?

definately look at VCU. i believe that you could easily get into that. if you want a more challenging schools try Washington and Lee University, College of William and Mary, University of Richmond, and University of Virginia. if you're only going to be a junior this year, congrats to you for these acheivements so far. use collegeboard.com and their college finder search, it's really helpful for the college process stuff, it's what i use and reccamend. good luck!

How and where do i touch him to make him feel good (not necessarily sexually)?

He definitely could've gotten hard, for some guys even just hugging or tickling them sets them off! I would say to really focus on his neck, collarbone, shoulders..run over them lightly with your fingertips, it'll give him goosebumps. Also if you're feeling super-adventurous, have you tried his nipples yet? Some guys REALLY like when girls go in circles over them with fingers or tongues, and even very gently pinching or biting them, oppositely some guys hate this. Just ask him, or find out what he likes from his reaction, you guys should be comfortable enough to explore each other. If he DOES like his nipples being played with though, be forewarned, lots of nerve endings there and the stimulation will most likely get him hard. Your call if you're ready to deal with that, good luck!

What is his ******* problem?

My best friend Jamie, got into a fight at school. Sure he is quick and can break a guys nose, but against a jock he will lose. I am also the reason he got into the fight. The jock who named Tyler was looking down my shirt at subway. Jamie glared at him and told him to stop. I tried to grab Jamie's hand to lead him out, but he told me to let go. I did. A few mins later they were outside. Jamie was on the ground so I pulled him away. Then went up to Tyler and punched him. I gave him a black eye and a fat lip. Now Jamie won't talk to me. What did I do? How can I fix it? He is like my only friend.

Concerned about how my ex-boyfriend is taking our break up?

So long story short--things just weren't working out. And they weren't working out for a long time. We dated almost 4 and a half months but the last month or so of that was just a very unhappy and unhealthy relationship. His immaturity and insensitivity and stubbornness was just getting to me. I had started thinking about wanting to break up with him just a little at first, brushing the thought away, wondering why i would even think such a thing. But i just kept thinking about it more and more until i was just thinking in my head--OHMYGOSHWHYDONTIJUSTBREAKUPWITHHIM… So I finally decided, two days ago, that we should break up. That week we barely talked...we never held hands or hugged. We both kept our distances. But that week especially, was the week when he seemed to try to be uttermost annyoing he possibly could. So I broke up with him, yesterday. The break up actually went quite well, resulting in smiles, a hug, and of course the standard "Let's just be friends". But keep in mind, this was my first relationship, and i had noo idea it would end up this bad. He is taking the split very, very hard. Won't text me back, completely ignores me. And I'm taking it pretty bad too. I spent most of yesterday afternoon crying. So to get to the actual question, what do i do? Guys, what would you want your ex girlfriend to do? How long do I give him space for? When will we be able to talk again? Why are we both taking this break up so hard..when it seemed like the right thing to do? Please any advice is appreciated, thanks.

Where do i touch him to make him feel good?

Hi anonymous, my I do like the ending of your question, you don't mess about do you. Okay first of all you could always lick his nipples, you could very lightly nibble his ears. The problem is different guys like different things. Look whenever you mess with a guy, I mean in touching mode then almost inevitably you're going to get him hard, it's just the mere fact that he can feel your hands touching his body that gets him this way. I know what you mean about the lightness of touch, it's almost as though you're not actually touching the body it's just brushing the fine hair on the body. That is very erotic whether you think so or not. There are places on the body which are erogenous zones and believe me they can be in the areas that you touch. So although your intention is not to arouse him, you may still be doing just that. Look if you're guy was to run his fingers across your torso in the area that you do to him, very lightly just as you do you will get aroused. If you don't believe me ask him to do it, it has to be so light that you can barely feel it. I wish you happiness.

Is it true that if you give him nothing to work with he will stop controlling?

Give a guy no more attention and he will have nothing to work with anymore. He can talk to himself all he wants, as he may be the only one that gives himself the kind of affection he is looking for. Especially if its immaturity. A guy that lives with his parents and needs to talk to mommy every single day isn't the kind of guy ready for a commitment. Take away all the attention he used to get and he will be lost and crawling back to you.

Liking two guys at a time?

please help me. i really like these two guys at the same time. One is a guy i loved for 2+ years but he's 3 years youger than me. i really rlyrlyrly loved and maybe still love him. he goes for "better" girls. ex. slim, pretty, etc. but apparently everone and even I believed he (used to) like(s) me. (im average weight and attractive) (ppl say im pretty though) the thing is that he's kinda shy and probably wants me to make the first move. even though he's an extrovert and loud he can be really secretive. like because of ego and immaturity problems, he like doesnt tell ppl personal infp. etc. the other guy who i've kinda been eyeing (since guy #1 seems to be pulling apart from me) I danced with at the last dance. I felt sparks and he was rlyrlyrly nice :) like i think about him a lot now lol. they both are cute. the first guy i've actually known but have never admitted my love to. the second guy, i barely knew but sparks!!! yah i probably should choose the first guy but he never comes out and i barely see him. (our relationship is really complicated. i made him jealous by telling hiim i liked other guys which is why he barely talks to me. but he teases me a lot. like about the second guy lol.but i barely see him, een though i need to tell him i like him). but the second guy is uber nice and cute too. what do you guys think? HELP!! thx :)

I feel so lonely,how to get out of this sore bitter feeling I am in?

really really lonely..what to do to get out of this feeling..joining activities don't give any fun no more...

My friends can't see posts that i have wrote on other peoples walls on my wall?

when i click somebodys profile i can see whos wall they have written on under recent activity, apprently my friends cant see whos wall ive wrote on.. why is this how can i change it?

Is my man cheating online, or in a mid life crisis?

The past few weeks I noticed my live-in boyfriend of 8 years is suddenly very interested in his appearance, exercising everyday, and eating Special K for breakfast. He loves for me to go stay at my parents house, and always makes the excuse that he can't come with me. He used to love staying out at my parents place, because they live in a beautiful home, next to a lake. Lots of stuff to do here. Lately, he's been wanting to be by himself. He told me today that he is very proud of me that I am starting to be more independent of him, and that he thinks I am doing great by staying out here, and not calling him all the time. WTF? He is always on Facebook too. I honestly do not think he is cheating on me though. BUT, I do think he tries to act like he is single. I have a feeling he is on some singles websites too. What should I do without sounding like I am being accusatory? Should I go behind his back and check his computer? He also defriended me on Facebook, but he says he doesn't know why I am not on his friends list anymore. I have asked him millions of times already if he would like to be single. He says no way. My mother thinks he wants his cake & eat it too. He needs me for certain things, like staying in the apartment, because it is in my name. His credit is bad, so the apartment is in my name, and all the bills too, like the electricity. Do you think he stays with me because of this? There is absolutely no passion in our relationship anymore. He doesn't kiss me, or snuggle with me anymore. He sleeps out in the living room on the futon every night, while I stay in the bedroom, reading books. We used to be hot for each other, but he is a cold fish now. I feel very depressed about it all. Should I just leave him? We live in a very fun city, but he is 47, and I am 37. He is always going swimming by himself at night at the local swimming hole too, which bothers me. He does invite me, but sometimes I don't feel like jumping into 67 degree water at 9 o'clock at night. He is acting like Mr. Activity, while he treats me like the old lady that is supposed to stay at home and not have any fun.

Buising private parts cycling?

I find that after you put your shorts on grab some of the material around the top of your legs and pull it up especially around your crotch. That takes the pressure of off your crotch area. I never had the problem with my old shorts but the new ones with a different pad was painfull and had the same problem. Try it it works.

Parents: what would you think if your 14 year old daughter claimed not to like boys?

I think it's just immaturity. By the time she's old enough to get married she will have found the right person. At this age children can't possibly know what they want in life. She might just be saying this because she saw how horribly me and her father's relationship went, we are divorced now. My daughter goes to a girls only school so she wouldn't be exposed to boys anyway. What do you think?

True or False : Your high school acts like sports are a religion?

True. I live in New York so we're going through a tough time here with the schools but we had to make sure we had sports even though we have the most shitty stuff. They did a fundraiser and everything. I refused to play on sports teams.

Is this normal at all...my bf texts his ex! what should i do?

I talk to my ex on the phone sometimes an I dont want him, if it bothers you he shouldn't do it, but I wouldn't worry about it. He already told you he don't want her.

Any ideas for service hours?

I want to get into Columbia so I want to know what extra curricular activities I can do an what service things I can do to success ?

Why is it that I'm becoming jealous of people more attractive than I am?

I don't think it's an "Asian-thing," as so many feel that way. Back when you were the only Asian person in high school, maybe you stood out a bit. Maybe, your beauty was more noticeable because you were the only ONE. You might have appeared even a bit exotic to the guys.Now the playing field has broadened. Not only are their other Asian women but Eastern Indian women, African-American women, women from Europe, Japan, and all over the globe. The dating stakes are now raised a bit higher and competition is stiff. It's typical now for people to be with one person while having their eye on someone else. Keep your options open--if you know what I mean.

Family history of Schizoid Disorders and Autism. What are my chances of having a disorder as well?

Your odds are probably high, sorry. Many believe it can be prevented though. The going thoughts among the docs who are treating those with autism, is that it's from immune stress overload, and of course, some are more sensitive to this than others. Kind of like if you give a certain amount of poison to rats. Some will die, but not all. So, we say that the ones who lived were more healthier than the others, or had better immunity and genetics for various reasons. What I know is what is reversing autism symptoms, to include Bipolar, ADHD, OCD, and even more. It's accomplished by rebuilding the immune system by ridding toxins, pathogens, special diets, and nutrients. Much more is also done to reduce neuro-inflammation and increase circulation, etc. Some believe that those who are ill now, are just those who are "weaker" in some way, and that this problem will continue on it's alarmingly increasing rate. Some think those who are showing these chronic symptoms genetically can't rid toxins as well, or have issues with absorbing Vitamin D correctly or something else that makes them weaker. Many believe that their immune systems are skewed by vaccines or another immune stressor that makes them not fight off intracellular pathogens (lyme, Bartonella, mycoplasma, Epstein-Barr and other viruses, protozoa, etc.) See www.heidinotes.com for some insight. And want to add that low homocysteine is correlated with high IQ as well as higher rates of autism. Homocysteine is used by the body to rid toxins. But, there is a lot to learn in this area. Each family has it's own unique reasons why they are more susceptible, but generally speaking, the big causes are toxins, pleomorphic and intracellular pathogens, and electrosmog. They all reportedly work together to cause the disease state. See also autism.com.

If I worked out more, would girls like me more?

There is this girl I really like and I rarely ever get to talk to her. She always ignores me and talks to the jocks. Right now I am in cross country and soccer. I'm good at these sports but I still don't have big muscles or six pack. Is this what girls really want. If I were to spend three months on P90X or some weight training program to get a six pack or big muscles, would this make her talk to me? This has been an issue and I was wondering if this is all I had to do to get her to talk to me.

BF broke up with me - immaturity or out of love?

He is insecure and his ego is getting in the way. With a drinking issue like the one that he had, you better be really careful if you stay in the relationship.

Plzz plzz help me out!!!!!!?

today when i logged into my gmail account....suddenly a warning appeared...and the warning is " YOUR ACCOUNT HAS BEEN ACCESSED BY BTCENTRAL PLUS.COM" and i found two options show details and ignore below the warning....and i clicked show details...it displayed my recent activity like login details...and this details includes Access type, IP address ,location and time....i found some ip address which are not familiar to me.....and these ip address belongs to Unitedkingdom...and it was accessed four times with four different ip address...now iam worried about my pics which are saved in my account....plz plz plzzzzz suggest me some advice...what to do???am very much worried........if hacker misuses my photos......plz help me out

Is it weird that I'm looking forward to being in my thirties?

Well, I'm only 23 lol so I have awhile to go before I hit the big 3-0 but I can't wait. I feel like I just cemented that point in my life where I know where I want to go, I know where I want to be in terms of academia and career and I'm getting over the indecisiveness that goes along with immaturity. A lot of people my age are either partying hard at clubs or married at home with the kids. I'm not into any of that and I feel like people kind of look at me weird because I refuse to follow a trend. But I feel like when I hit my thirties, those boxes will kind of disappear and society will be a bit easier to navigate through. What are your thoughts? Am I just being naive or can you see some truth there?

How is Fairbanks Alaska?

i want to move to Fairbanks and i wanna know how it is there, specifically things like the cost of living there, weather, hotspots, what type of leissure activities people do, and other interesting features and attractivitions of the city.

Is it fair my parents want me to stay close to home for college and commute?

No. It's not fair. You need to spread your wings and mature as your own person and for them to want to hold you back is really selfish of them. You should go to a school you love. If it happens to be close by then fine. But going to a close school solely for that reason is not fair to you.

How do i lose man boobs?

Don't tell me "workout" since i probably workout more then most of you. I am a jock. And i do three sports every year. I lift weights at least 4 times a week. I run. But no matter what i do they won't go away. I am buff and everything i have the highest lifts of anyone on my team. But these things will not go away. How do i make them go away? I am only 17 so i can't have surgery.

Does this girl still like me? Should I even be worried if she doesn't?

aww well the fact that she sent you a text asking you to the dance meant she was still interested in you. she probably didnt answer your text because she wasnt going and didnt know what to say since things got pretty awkward between you too. plus, maybe she was thrown off that you're a jock. and your last paragraph says it all. all right; im not completely impartial. I'm kind of a preppy jock myself but seriously do you want to go out with someone who does hardcore drugs? you sound really funny based on your question-you're down to earth and have a good personality. plus again the fact that she asked you about the dance meant that you must be physically attractive & cute so don't worry. do you. if you really like her then go for it but don't doubt yourself. it doesnt sound like you guys have great chemistry for a relationship anyway. you want someone you can have good conversation with. stay confident & do what feels right. I'm sure you could get tons of girls; youre probably not being foward enough. good luck (:

I Want to trust my bf again!! Help!?

Well, we r both really young . I'm 13 and he's 12. I know its a young age so I don't wanna hear about it. But we have had this relationship going on for about 1 year and 6 months. And awhile back he did something very stupid that you wouldn't expect from someone that young, it was about 6 or 7 months ago. <--He did cheat on me once...and it was pretty bad. But most people told me to forgive him. So we still dated, and we still are. But I'm having bad trust issues lately and I'm not ready to leave him. He lies alittle and that doesnt really help any but I always just saw that as immaturity. Someone please give me some advice. ):

Can you still date her after she lied?

This girl n I like eachother for about 2 months now. Been hanging out every day. She pays for me to do lots of stuff with her and same with her family. Her family really likes me and told her not to mess up and lose me. Well, the last 3 days I've noticed she's been texting this girl a lot. Her and this girl almost dated awhile back. I confronted her and she lied to me. Well, my friend was told by the other girl that the girl I liked said she liked her still. So I confronted her again and she denyed it then finally admitted it. She obviously was mad I busted her. She said we're not in a relationship so why does it matter? I said cuz you lied. She also said well wouldn't u of rather have a friend tell u i liked her then me? I laughed at her immaturity. She came over later that night and we talked. She couldn't stop crying and she knows she messed up. She likes me way more then the other girl and cannot help liking someone else she says.. Also said she didn't wanna tell me cuz she knew she'd hurt me. I was like idc if you like someone else just don't lie to me. What do I do here? I'm not sure.. I want to give her another chance but then again idk if I should.. I need some mature advice please. Thank you

Please explain this sentence?

Whether the calls for such a crackdown are mere posturing or lead to more definitive activity by mainstream economics to restrict access to tax havens is yet to be seen.

Do i sound like a datable / attractive guy?

first i thoought you were rough and you do not understand girls you think there like guys but there much more sensitive and sweeter just make'em feel speacial sndn trust me you will have that special girl you want just practicing in the mirror but not infront of anybody too weird

Hockey jock and cup!?

Hi i play ice hockey and i have no idea if i wear boxers or if i just go commando in it. It is a nutthutt so the cup is in the pants,so it might irritate me but i dont know what to do and i have a camp that im going to in a couple weeks. PLEASE help me!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Celebrating daughters bday party with ex husband?

Ok, stupid situation!! I should def be over this one. My ex husband invited me to my daughters 7th birthday. We get along GREAT! I am 36 weeks pregnant and have been seperated from my boyfriend for 6 months. Most of my pregnancy. Mostly because he was abusive at a point which made me leave and before that one day he loves me the next he hates me and wants me out. Really?? It's so unstable. So I moved got my own place said forget it. Well on mothers day the father of this child didn't even call to say happy mothers day, nor called to say happy bday to my daughter. Blamed me for not showing up at my house when I told him I needed to go to the hospital for contractions so he was mad didn't call! ASSHole right! So my daughters bday was day after mothers day and I went. It was a blast! Got along great! Then he starts caring bcuz we are having a baby and I told him he needed to start acting like an adult or at this point I won't have him at the delivery, and she won't get his last name. Well one day is all it took he asked my daughter how her bday was. She said fun. He asked me if I went. I said ofcourse. Ses like u don't care to b in my life anyways y shuld I sit around and besides I was going not for my ex but my daughter. He flipped out said once again I'm done and ur a scandoulois b.... I pretty much said that's fine go ahead and run again and don't expect to come back. So he can say he's done with me and get on facebook talk to woman go to strip clubs and I can't accept that he's done and go to my daughters bday? Anyone think I'm n the wrong. I'm extremly emotional and hormonal so mind screwing myself. At this point my last name is my exs name and has been for 6 years and so is ny daughters. My ex husband said he didn't mind if I gave the new baby the same last name as this father is a pos. Just really tired of games and immaturity and I think that's what it is. If he was abusive it's ok to not have him b a part of the birth right? Any suggestions on these many ?s

Boyfriends mother is very jealous of me?

well the first thing youve done wrong is try to detatch him from his family! thats never gona work! maybe you should let him find ut for himself!x

What happened? Paranormal activity? Please answer.?

Ok so me and my friend where sitting in her room and I was recording her singing on garage band. There was nothing weird on the recording but after we stopped recording the blinds flew out and then smashed into the wndow. There was no one near it and nothing bumped it were sure. There was no earthquake the window was shut tight because we checked right after we finished freaking out. We thought of any logical explination and no one who is in the house right now can think of one either besides ghosts or something. There have been weird things happening in her house before and mine witch is right across the street.

Should me and my girlfriend break up?

Okay so your right you may get a stupid imature reaction but if you just talk to her and tell her how you feel about eveything she may be willing to straghtin up a bit to make you happy and satisfy your needs and or wants. Also this may make her see that your really an honest guys and want better for your guyses relationship and she may be a little more secure about you going out and being around girls because you are telling her the truth and actually talking to her about it... so I say just talk to her and don't give up hope love never fails and if its ment to be it will happend

Nothing seems to work, what can I do to change myself?

I'm 14, honors student, straight a's, but when it come to girls, I am an F. Here's my situation. I have asked out 17 girls (over the course of 3-4 years) and I have been rejected 17 times. Yes, I know, I am a loser. So, I know it has to be something wrong with me. I really don't think I am ugly, I am not arrogant, just confident. Is it because I'm not a jock (I do like to watch sports though, big fan of baseball) and I'm not popular? I don't what to do, except come here for help. What can I do to change so this streak snaps? Thanks guys.

Could we ever be together?

She is a cheerleader and a girly type. She likes pop and alternative rock we used to hang out a lot. I am classified as a nerdy/emo/punk/metal head/skater. I really do have strong feelings for her. I really do. It might be the beginning of love. The thing is that when I tell her I love her and miss her she says the same back to me. At the time I feel special but she says "I love you" and "I miss you" to everyone so the feeling fades. All of her ex boyfriends are jocks but she told me ones she is tiered of guys like that. Yet she always hangs out with them. Do you think I should turn into a jock to impress her? I am pretty athletic I just don't have my live revolving on sports. Or should I just stay the way I am and hope she will one day take what I say seriously?

GAY: need advice for starting a relationship.?

No need to make a serious move, just something simple like saying, 'Hey, we should hang out over the summer sometime', and try to exchange numbers! Are you his friend on Facebook? Write on his wall, something like a joke about the math class. You know? Make a crack about the teacher or something, try to just start a friendship first! Engage in some conversation, try to get to know each other and form a friendship. I'd avoid coming on too strong with sexual moves and motives just yet.

Men and Ladies thank me, I just found out how to enlarge penis?

I was a bit immature with my previous questions if you look at my activity which I apologize for.I think I may have found out how to enlarge my penis and I think it's from protein in chicken. It makes sense seeing as how the penis is a muscle so the protein just enlarges it even more. I also think make your penis darker/ tanning it may do the trick as this will block harmful UAV rays strinking it from the sun which causes shrinkage.

What should I do about my boyfriend?

I love my boyfriend very much and I eventually want to get married and start a family with him, but he has 4 kids by 4 women and he's been traumatized by their immaturity and drama (even though he doesn't talk with any of them and we even raise his 4th child together because his mom is a deadbeat). I always tell him and proved to him and he has acknowledged that I am different these other "street rats". Every time even make a simple comment about " baby mamas" on the Maury show (for example) he goes into severe PTSD mode and rages on about his past and why it is horrible being a father, baby mama drama, etc,. Even though he's not addressing me I feel horrible about myself. I tried talking with him but he just interrupts me and says what he wants to say and I rarely finish half of a sentence. I don't know how to communicate with him anymore. He talks down to me and yells at me for the silliest reasons and makes me feel like dirt. I feel like I want to give it one last try and if all else fails I will leave. Advice please?

Why do teen guys say this???????

How come the nerds say that the jocks are disrespectful and the jocks say the nerds are disrespectful......I mean are they stupid!! Why do they do this....Are any of the true nice guys out there??? Please answer all the questions...Thanks!

What is prevalence data in relation to older adults and physical activity?

Simple fact,for the most part your physical ability slides lower as one ages.The study of geriatrics is a fast moving field.I think it boils down to the accumulated sounds over a life time that draws on ones health to the conclusion of life.That God spoke the world into creation and he takes us all out the same way.That should be some food for thought.Good luck with your inquiry.

Is it normal to have six fingers?

This really hot jock in my neighborhood has sixfingers in both hands, an so does his mom. Is it normal?

How do I tell my crush/bf that I don't like him anymore?

You need to call him and express your feelings, because to just leave him by himself wondering about what you are doing or what's going on isn't fair at all. I mean you are a nice girl, I'm assuming, and you said he is a jerk, not telling him anything, is basically like being a jerk. Just talk to him, let him know whats up and everything will work out from there.

Nice guys finish last?

This statement was completely true in high school, no doubt about that. I have a hard time believing that girls completely change their attitudes when they enter college. I feel like they would still go for the douchebag jock over the boring nice guy. What are your thoughts and experiences?

Anyone have any advice on dating?

Basically, I'm almost 18 now and I've been single my whole life. I'm sick of being the oddball just because I've never dated. What am I supposed to do? Is it just because I'm not a jock like all the other guys?

Is my lack of food causing this muscle pain?

i havent been eating properly for about 9 days usually having under 500 calories a day. i have lost 7 lbs . im 16 stone 3 (now) and 5"11 tall and 18 y/o and female. today i have been having muscle pains down the front of my thighs and across my chest. it feels like i have pulled a muscle but i havent done any excercise or activity. what i want to know is is it my body eating muscle for energy ? but why doesnt it use the fat? i have about 6 stone spare so it should be using that for energy right?

Should I ask if she received my facebook messages?

Relax, you'll just have to wait it out. If you keep messaging her or even asking if she got the message you'll just seem too clingy and despreate

What is wrong with my knee?

I have many of these symptoms, although mine is from Ballet. I go regularly to physio, from this they said the muscle on my knee cap isn't strong and it causes my knee cap to slide around. so whenever i go to dancing (3 times a week) she taught me how to tape my knees which helps to reduce the swelling and pain. You may have done something minor and it hasn't healed properly, don't worry yourself the doctors will find out and it will get better. Sports are the main causes of injuries, keep your hopes up and give physio another chance, it may help.

Can you sue for mistaken identity?

Police Officers lurked around my house on a tuesday night, due to criminal activity in my area. I came out my house to find out why...they ran my license and told me they were just making sure, following proper protocol. The next day, I come home from work and they now have a search warrant and now have arrested me, linking me to the criminal activities in the area, along with similar cases that were going on for a few weeks. They advised me this has been an ongoing investigation, and they have set up surveillance around my house. Now, mind you they had a description of the suspect, in which matches mine a little, but they came to my house the night before, but no arrest. So now you come back the next day and i'm accused of the crimes. You found no evidence, linking me, just my description, which favors many...and you have caused me to miss maybe about 5 days of work, you have my name in the papers as if you really got your guy (humiliation) and your holding me on 1/2 million dollar bail. The reason I ask if able to sue, because obviously as the night progressed you have created a case against me with no proof, and you have also said dogs led you to my location. One important factor here, that i didn't mention...the time of the crimes, i was working! My supervisor is able to testify that and provide proof. Shouldn't you have a little more proof than a description before you make your arrest?

How to be a healthier teen?

For starters, stop comparing yourself to your super skinny friends!!!!!!!! That's not gonna help you! And I know that you said you feel lazy about running and stuff but that's one of the best ways to stay fit is excersize a little each day. Ooooh!! You could jump rope cause that makes you VERY fit. Also, dancing is a great and fun way to stay fit. And watch your diet too. Try to eat more veggies and less chips etc. I hope that I helped you and good luck staying fit :)

Should I learn self defense?

I got into a fight with this one chick about a week ago, she was my "friend" but decided that she doesn't like my and blatantly told me so because I "really piss her off". After a few angry text messages were sent back and forth i deleted her number and have been trying to forget about it. We are both going to be in choir together next year and I'm not looking forward to seeing her again. Her twitter even mentions that "the feathers are gonna fly August 29th" (first day of class) a lot of her friends are also in choir too and I don't want them ganging up on me. I don't want any drama because We are in college and I don't want any silly fights to get in the way of my education. If she nit picks in class I'm just going to ignore her because I have my own friends in choir to back me up and her immaturity is not going to bother me, but if she lays a hand on me after class what should I do? I don't want to get in any fistfights because I don't want to get kicked out of college. Should I learn self defense to protect myself? This whole drama is ruining my summer. :(

Demonic activity? seeing yourself?

Im not sure exactly what this means but here it goes. I was having a bad dream that I kept trying to wake up from, I don’t particularly remember the dream but I do remember something about large rocks being hurled at the back of my skull. I finally forced myself to wake up and my head was throbbing and I had a knot on the back of my head. I was asleep in the middle of my bed and there was no way I could have banged it. I looked at my phone and responded to a text at 3:31 am and went back to go back to sleep when I turned over I saw myself laying next to me. Only it wasn’t me I appeared to be dead like a slightly decayed look but I was alive just staring at myself mouth gaping open. This girl who was “me” I swear it was maybe a demonic version of me and was turned on my left side when I first awoke and that’s how she was could she have possibly be causing the actual pain in the back of my head? Also I grabbed one of my pillows and repeatively smacked her with it before picking her up and throwing her out of my bed when she then turned back into my robe on the floor. I KNOW I was awake and I know what I saw because I was JUST on my phone before I turned over and my phone (iphone) is veryyy bright and my room was illuminated I was NOT dreaming. This morning when I called my friend to tell her the events she tells me that I texted her at 3:31am the morning before and I also recall waking up about that time the day prior. What could this mean?

What should i call my book?

I don't mean to be rude, but it its just their everyday lives it will get a little boring. We live everyday, so we don't need a book telling us what it's like. Make sure you add in twists to make it more interesting.

Ideas on how to change my lifestyle to something more natural?

I hate modern life(technology, yuppies, capitalism, greediness etc) and wish to live a more natural/alternative/authentic earth-caring life. I just want to get away from this western society where people live brainwashed and deluded in a life that I just find unbearable. Im growing plants, recycle alot, take part in human rights activities but its not enough, I need to escape the madness of post 2000.

Why is it that... (20 char)?

On Y!A Politics, you'll have some people make nasty insults against one party, then you'll have a person from that party complain about the insults and immaturity only to insult and be immature right back?

How to deal with immaturity and drama?!?

So I have this cousin who is I seriously think psycho and she doesn't like me cuz every boy she liked didn't like her and liked me instead. But she and her parents don't like me cuz she was trying to fight me and I fought back. But her parents and herself are so immature idk how to deal with it. They act like children worse if even. They will make faces and act dumb towards my son who has nothing to do with it. A couple years back they threatened me. Her mom said she'd attack me when least expecting it and her daughter threatened to kill me and my son. How the hell am I suppose to deal with these people??

Should I make this guy I like a "friendship" bracelet?

Why don't you ask him how he feels about bracelets, I know it sounds weird but I do it all the time (ask qeustions) and they seem to like it.